A Brief Pow Wow with the Ladies

Alright Ladies! Lets have a pow wow, the summer is here and I am already seeing some things that really need to be addressed. Personal style always takes confidence however confidence in a style that may not be so flattering comes off as a fail! (eyebrows raised)

KNOW! YOUR! BODY TYPE! Learn what works for you, EVERYTHING does not work for everyone. If you have more in the middle to love, then mid drifts may not be your thing. However pheasant tops and empire wasted garments are things that will give you a wonderful curve to your silhouette. If you’re a plus sized BBW or a petite woman on the go a clean tailored look never hurt anyone!

It is always important to know your foundational garments, the things that hold you in place embellish your items that you want on display. Foundational garmets are all items listed below.

Bra’s – Push up’s, separating, or multiple bras in one setting may be required.

Girdles

Spanks

Body shapers

Ladies! Learn to walk in heals before you venture outdoors in them. This is something that most women were taught as younger girls, but if you missed High Heel 101 don’t worry there is a self help class. You can conquer the heel with practice at home in your everyday life. A high heel shoe should show case the powerful femininity of a woman, it elongates her stride, and softens her powerful and purposeful stance. I said all this to say! You should not sound like a thunderous group of galloping Clydesdales( umm that would be horses for you folks scratching your heads @ that) being herd  and felt approaching before your seen. Heels force balance and posture, grace and poise are also must haves in pulling off this stilt like task lol. if those are off, then you Just need to know that instead of being the fierce feline at the frolic, you'll end up as the "flop" who failed.

Doing daily task at home such as vacuuming, the dishes, cleaning, or simply lounging in a cheap pair of heels will give you the practice you need, before bossing up to big girl status and rocking your Louboutins

 out in public with snickers and tweet side bar comments.

Don’t leave critiques up to your girlfriends as with women there is always the element of cattiness, ask your brother, cousin, or uncle how your walk is, men have no pretense they will be honest and you’ll know how a man in any social setting will view your walk. in due time you will graduate from house heels to social stilettos in no time.

Know your limitations, if you have health issues, or other things that would affect your ability to wear a pair of heels and still be alright to move about the country, then don’t. There are a vast of fine flats out there that can rock the same stage.