I re-introduce to you. . . Me

Okay America! So at one point in my life, life itself became not so user friendly. So I did what any other sane individual would do. I hit the stop button cause I wanted to get off the ride. I went into seclusion to gather what I had learned about life, people and most importantly me. It’s interesting that life is always changing and consistently evolving however when we come back to it we are without a doubt always surprise that because we hit pause on living, life still played out without us while we were not there!

Anyone who knows me knows that I am at a current phase in my life where control is a must, I know there are elements in life that I will never be able to control but in the reality of my mental state I can control everything else lol hahahaha (yeah right!). I shut down my face book, turned off my cell phone and changed my e mail address. I have not FB since June of 2009(no myspace, no twitter, no nothing). Wow life is possible without the interaction of Americas social net works! Lol! You will most certainly be out of the loop but you will live.

I'm back!

It has been some time since I have posted anything, and to you guys who come here looking to see what I have to say next "I thank you" However I apologize as my actions would seem as though I take it for granted but my life would prove it impossible to get to this PC at times to say anything.


Whoever it was that coined the phrase "life comes at you fast!" Surly knew what they were talking about. In this life I am steadily learning that life does come fast, things, happen, changes occur and you have to take it in stride and keep on moving. "God help me to accept the things I cannot change, and give me the strength and direction to change the things I can." Whew this particular portion of that prayer is really something to say and some to ask for "help me to accept the things I can change!" Whew! If we all are entirely honest with ourselves we can say that things have happened in our lives that proved impossible for us to change. Deaths, situations, issues. Things happen and the reality is you cant blame yourself for those things, and you cant live your life o pause because of those things. LIVE! See those things in your life for what they were and move on. It sound insensitive but it really is a requirement to life.


"Give me strength and direction to change the things I can." Man! This right here for some does take the strength of a higher power to enable you to activate in your life. For some of us it means cutting off enablers in our life, letting of of relationships that really were not so good for us, or choosing to let go when we are so used to holding on. One thing you must always remember that life is to be lived learned processed and most importantly progressed.